Back to blogging

It’s been almost a year since I blogged – and easily a year since I blogged with any regularity. Suddenly though, it feels like the time to come back to it.

I never really set out to become a mummy blogger – or any kind of blogger for that matter- but having some time away has made me want to come back to it all.

I stopped writing here last year for a few reasons. Work felt increasingly busy and I was tired out by the evenings. I’d gone up to 4.5 days a week and didn’t feel like I also had the energy to put into my blog. More than anything, I had no desire to keep up with the competitiveness that seemed to have crept into blogging networks.

Instead, I thought I might spend my evenings finally getting that manuscript together for the book I secretly know I’ll never finish writing. I thought I might take up a more constructive hobby. But it seems the best part of a year has passed and there’s still more of the book in my mind than on paper. I’ve watched a lot of TV, drunk a lot of wine, and definitely not done anything constructive in the time I’ve gained by not blogging.

I’ve remained friends with the very brilliant and lovely group of women I met (years ago now), through my blog. I guess we started off as, largely, London mummy bloggers – now we’re doing all sorts of things. Those friendships aren’t based around blogging anymore, but there’s still something about blogging that I miss. It’s the wider connections, the community, the network, the being a part of something.

Whether we write for ourselves, for our children as a record, for our mental health for catharsis, for an income to support our families – whatever the reason, this year off has given me some perspective. It’s made me feel incredibly awed by what the blogging community is doing. I am amazed everyday by what the group of incredibly strong women around me who do this have achieved – be their successes very personal to them or wide-reaching.

For me – I’ve missed writing. I’ve missed adding my voice to the noise (because yes, even if it is noise, where else will it be heard if not here?), and I’ve missed recording the stories of my family’s life. Without my blog, I’m not very good at doing it.

I am, more than ever, determined that women’s voices aren’t drowned out. I spend every day at work trying to strengthen the power of our voices as a collective. And it feels like I’ve silenced myself in some way, by not writing, talking and publishing here.

I’m not quite sure whether this blog will stay the same as the children grow – they need their own space and this shouldn’t be it. But what I do know is that this was always my space for me to be me. It feels good to be back.

Kiran Chug back to blogging

11 Comments on Back to blogging

  1. Molly
    May 7, 2017 at 9:43 pm (4 months ago)

    HOORAY! So glad to see you’re back Kiran xxx

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    • kiranchug
      May 7, 2017 at 9:54 pm (4 months ago)

      Ah thank you Molly! Bit worried that I’ve not done any wp admin since July though. Forgot about that side of things! x

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  2. Plutonium Sox
    May 7, 2017 at 10:19 pm (3 months ago)

    Oh Kiran how lovely to see your blog popping into my inbox! I’m so glad you’ve started to blog again, I love the way you write and enjoy reading every post. Welcome back!
    Nat.x

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  3. Daya
    May 7, 2017 at 10:49 pm (3 months ago)

    So glad to see you back!! Missed reading your wonderful blogs!!xx

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  4. Daya
    May 7, 2017 at 10:49 pm (3 months ago)

    So glad to see you back!! Missed reading your wonderful blogs!!xx

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    • kiranchug
      May 8, 2017 at 9:34 pm (3 months ago)

      Ah, thank you so much! xx

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  5. Rebecca Beesley
    May 8, 2017 at 1:44 pm (3 months ago)

    so lovely to see you blogging again. Some days I feel the only thing I’ve “achieved” is writing a blog post when the rest of my life is so messy and I love that my kids will read every blogpost and look back over previous ones regardless of whether the post is about them or not. That is what keeps me going. Welcome back x

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    • kiranchug
      May 8, 2017 at 9:32 pm (3 months ago)

      I totally get that Rebecca. It’s lovely being back x

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  6. Emma Day
    May 9, 2017 at 9:12 pm (3 months ago)

    Welcome back! I’ve not blogged for a few months but I’m coming back too and taking my blogs in new directions. I want to blog less on crazywithtwins and focus more on my travel blog. I’ve countless daytrips and quite a few holidays to write about. I’m going to look at less time-consuming ways of editing my photos in the hope of gaining more writing time.

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    • kiranchug
      May 9, 2017 at 10:15 pm (3 months ago)

      Oh welcome back to you too then! You live in such a beautiful part of the country – hope you write about that too! – all the best with the new focus x

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  7. Donna
    July 18, 2017 at 9:30 pm (1 month ago)

    So pleased to see you back Kiran and sorry it’s taken me a couple of months to realise! x

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